Caution: Whatever I am going to write is just a piece of advice.It’s not a critics or enforcement on any girl.You are free to follow your own heart and mind.
Lend your eyes here.
Here is something for you.
Sorry for being bitter, but it’s worth it.
You are not born to just get married and bear children, you are born to live your life to the fullest. These gender roles are an outdated idea, you have the power to decide how your life will turn out so don’t let others define and decide your life for you.
You are beautiful irrespective of your skin color, facial features etc. Don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise, societal standards of beauty are a load of crap, you don’t need makeup or uncomfortable accessories, makeup can only cover blemishes, not a bad heart, makes sure that you put your comfort first and beauty second and have a humble heart above all else.
All men are not perverts, don’t let a few examples of few bad men spoil your opinion about all males, there are good people and there are bad people and they will probably never change, no matter what you do, so don’t judge every other man just because he ‘may’ be bad.
You are strong, independent and are equal to men in almost every aspect, you don’t require any privileges, but since you are given these privileges don’t misuse them, don’t ask any man to give you his seat to you just because you’re a female.
Support other girls, we can ramble all about why the position of females in our society is so low, but the truth is the people who can understand them i.e other women and girls aren’t supporting them, we see empty stadiums during women sports matches, if the people who understand them aren’t even supporting them, they can’t expect others to do the same so make sure you do your part.
Don’t follow the latest trends and other girls just because everyone is doing it, have a sense of identity, you are an individual meant to stand out, be yourself, think, and do you what you feel is right, understand who you are and never let anyone pin you down cause you are strong and can do anything if you put your mind to it
Acting dumb and being innocent are two different things. Innocence is adorable but being dumb is not.For information of some of you, INTELLIGENCE IS SEXY!
Friendzoning boys just to keep them as backups is not good at all. If you can sense the feeling in him about you, there is NOTHING wrong with telling him that you are not into him. AS SIMPLE AS THAT!!
Think twice before rejecting or insulting a guy on ground of his looks. THEY DON’T WEAR MAKEUP.
Last one: Don’t ask for respect, Earn that!!!